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LIGHTING A
PERSON'S HEART
Here are a couple of visualization techniques
which work for me very well. Not everyone
is able to do these, but believe me, they
do work and work with quick and visible
results if you have the knack. They are
perhaps easiest to do when the person is
actually physically visible to you, but
I have also performed them at a distance
with very satisfactory results.
Imagine that you are holding a beautiful
pink candle that has a very bright, merry,
golden or white flame. See yourself as reaching
out to the person whose heart you wish to
warm, and place the candle right into their
heart. Withdraw your "hand", and
try to keep it lit once it is there.
If it is easy to keep lit, and glows brightly,
the individual is open to you and more could
occur with relative ease between you; in
fact, the very act of your putting it there
quickens their interest in and awareness
of you. They will not realize you are doing
anything to them unless they happen to be
extraordinarily sensitive. A strong, developed
worker might be able to isolate the good
feeling he or she is having and trace it
back to you. I've had that happen, too.
But it's very rare.
If the flame keeps extinguishing no matter
what you do, or you have to fuss with it
a great deal to make sure it stays lit,
it is a sign that the person is not particularly
open to nor particularly interested in you.
If you can't get it into him at all (think
medieval turrets with heavily guarded arrow
slits), the individual is so barricaded
that this is not a good time to even attempt
more on that level.
In the event that you are unable to have
the flame stay brightly lit with ease, here
is another technique that undercuts that
one. This technique is useful when someone
needs to be gently calmed and soothed. After
this is successfully done, you can try the
first technique again. Visualize a soft and glowing cloud of warm
sweet pink light over the person's head,
sort of like an etheric cotton candy, very
tender and gentle. Gently, smoothly and
slowly, bring it over and around their head
and upper body, swirling it gently in a
spiral. I generally stop there and focus
on the heart area, just seeing them in this
cloudy light. Someone else I know brings
it down to the groin and focuses it there,
which gives the person a start and does
promote a sexual interest in the sender,
but I find it subtler at the heart. This
tends to calm a person down, and disarms
them a bit; in essence, it makes them feel
safer.
It can be used in many situations to help
establish a willingness to further relate. |
