A HONEY JAR SPELL TO SWEETEN SOMEONE TOWARDS
1) On a piece of brown paper
bag that you have neatly torn on all four
sides,write the person's name several times.
The number of times will vary according to
the situation. Most often, I suggest 3, 5,
7, or 9 times. Though the piece of paper bag
is unlined, write their name however many
times you have decided to one right under
the other as if on lined paper. Use their
entire name, first, middle and last, or as
much of it as you know.
2) Turn the paper 90 degrees
to the right, and write your full name directly
over their name, but this time, write yours
2 times more than theirs is written. You are
thus exerting dominance both because your
name is on top of theirs, and because your
name is written more times than theirs is.
The name paper will look like a grid, or a
3) Next, using a cup or other
round object, lightly trace a circle which
completely encircles the names.
4) The next bit requires some
thought. Work out a short and succinct phrase
which encapsulates your intention for the
situation. Carefully write this phrase around
the name grid in a perfect circle. The big
trick here is to NEVER ALLOW THE PEN TO LIFT
OFF OF THE PAPER. Write slowly and carefully
and it will be fine. Ideally, the last letter
of the phrase will run right into the first
letter of the phrase, so you will have an
unending circle. You will likely have to write
your phrase several times. You may go back
to dot your i's, etc. after you have written
the command perfectly.
5) Next, fold the paper TOWARDS YOU (the top
of the paper is folded in a direction towards
your body, rather than the bottom of the paper
being folded away from your body). As you
do this, state firmly what you wish to have
occur. Turn the paper 90 degrees to the right,
and fold it towards you again.
If you have something personal from the other
individual, such as some of their hair, or
a snippet of clothing that they have worn
directly against their body and that hasn't
been laundered since, place it into the paper
before you fold it. If you are doing this
work to increase the love in a romantic relationship,
you may add some of your hair or some of your
body's fluids. Then fold the paper towards
6) Obtain a clean glass jar,
preferably with a metal lid. Baby food jars
can work. Using incense or a plant burned
as incense (my preference is white sage),
allow the smoke to enter and surround the
jar and it's lid. As you do this, ask for
your work to be successful. The smoke will
purify and dedicate your materials. Also,
allow the smoke to curl around your folded
7) Place the folded namepaper
into the jar. I usually will put a bit of
appropriate herb or sugar in the jar first
for it to rest on. You may add more sugar
and more herbs and any other sweetener such
as maple or karo syrup that you have on hand.
Then, fill the jar up with honey, completely
covering your paper. It is likely that the
paper will rise in the jar, but do not worry
8) Choose a candle. Pink increases
romance, friendship and kindness, pale blue
calms situations, and red increases passion.
Choose what feels best to you. Usually I'd
opt for pink, as it is warm and an easy vibration.
You can use a honey jar in situations that
are not romantic to increase someone's willingness
to be helpful and kind towards you.
9) Anoint the candle with oil.
There are many condition oils made for specific
purposes to be had at occult stores, and some
of these are marvelous and add something to
your work. However, simple olive oil is time-honored
and carries a vibration of peace. It's use
is recorded in the Bible, and it may be used
with good success. There are different ways
to anoint or 'dress' a candle. Here is how
I was taught to do it: hold the candle and,
with oil on your hand, grasp it in the middle.
Angle the candle, wick up, towards your body.
Focusing strongly on your intention, pull
your hand up the candle from the middle towards
Then, turn the candle in your hand so that
the base of the candle is angled towards your
body, and repeat the motion of grasping it
in the middle, and pulling upwards towards
the base. Only rub in one direction, not up
Alternately, you may burn a
glass-encased 7-day candle. In this case,
rub the oil on the top surface of the candle
with intention. Rub in a clockwise direction.
You may also run an implement such as a screwdriver
down into the wax right next to the glass,
and pour a little of the oil into this hole.
You can also add a small quantity of herb
to this hole if you wish.
10) Place the candle on top
of the jar, and light it with intention. State
your intention as you light it, and keenly
and with great focus, visualize what you wish
to have change in this situation. Visualize
things happening as you want them to. See
the other person as being warm and welcoming,
kind and helpful, or loving and romantic towards
Allow the candle to burn all the way out.
You may place the entire setup into a fireproof
pot or pan, or on a bed of sand, or in a sink
or the tub, so as to eliminate worries about
fire, should you have to leave while the candle
You may burn another candle
on this jar whenever necessary, and if you
use tapers, allow the wax to remain on the
jar rather than cleaning it off.